Time stamped show notes:
[0:24] Made decisions about his life and the path he wanted to take during trip.
[01:45] Introduction to Eli
[05:10] Main job of leader is to lead/take charge
[05:19] To influence people you have to know the outcome
[05:49] Not knowing the outcome can mean you’re off and the perspective is off
[06:15] Communication / Language patterns are key
[06:51] Take whatever is coming at you and use it for your outcome
[07:08] Utilize your environment to support your outcome
[08:35] Owning his power | Believe in yourself
[09:24] Lies in self development : that something is bad with us
[09:35] Self development can be addictive
[10:30] Lesson he learned: conditioning
[12:15] Being aware of triggers.
[14:00] He changed his self-destructive habits to set up his life to win.
[16:58] Focus on 1% getting one percent better everyday.
[17:46] As a society we’re craving for truth and real.
[18:04] The rockstar of today is the entrepreneur
[21:58] We all have the capacity to be real live super heroes to create sustainable businesses that give back that inspire people
[25:11] A lot of entities have profited from keeping people down
[26:17] Food and drug industry is the one poisoning us to sell us medicine
[31:54] Familiarity breeds contempt
[34:46] Darwin: tribes that collaborate and share information live better, longer, adapt faster, etc.
[36:45] Power has gone from physical to mental
[36:49] What’s going to last in our life is the ability to influence ourselves and others.
[38:22] The influence is feminine: persuasion and learning to flow with the world
[38:42] When money is spent on women in African tribes they invest in agriculture and growth, men invest in war and carnage
[39:24] It’s the time of the feminine
[41:40] His voice was stifled by the voice of experts
[43:02] He’s been focusing on the genius inside him
[45:51] Cultivate sense of self trust and awareness and look for people that can help you in your journey
[48:01] Doesn’t want Tony Robbins influence since he began writing his own content
[55:45] In order for anybody to get better at anything they have to master The Triad – Physiology, Focus, Language
[56:10] People do things emotionally and try to justify them. You need to control people
[56:30] Figure out what you want and what they want. Figure out the reasons why they do what they do.
[57:08] Get what you want with questions. Whatever you ask people about gets them to focus on something
[57:17] Ask them what they want and why it hasn’t happened.
[58:09] Change postures, frames, tools
[1:05:26] Your mindset has to be that you’re not taking anything from this person, you’re helping them upgrade their life.
[1:06:17] We learn from metaphors
[1:06:47] Getting people to do things to get to a different state. People are conditioned, and you have to change their state
[1:07:13] You need to change your language and physiology
Three key points:
Resources mentioned:
Think and Grow Rich – Napoleon Hill
From So Simple a Beginning – The Collection of Charles Darwin’s work
Four Hour Work Week – Tim Ferriss' book
The Triad – Physiology, Focus, Language – Tony Robbins
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